The Seattle Seahawks beat the Green Bay Packers on Monday Night Football
last week. Well…I need to be
clear. The Seahawks kind of beat the Green Bay Packers on
Monday Night Football last week.
In
front of a national audience, on the last play of the game, the referees made
an incorrect call. That incorrect
call awarded the Seahawks six points they didn’t deserve. As a result, the Seahawks won.
The
following morning, news outlets of all shapes and sizes reported the blown call. They replayed footage of the play over
and over and over again, underscored by negative commentary. News anchors, analysts, talk show
hosts, and their long lost relatives complained, criticized, and bemoaned the officiating.
The American media was on the attack.
I
am glad that the American media isn’t interested in my mistakes. I would hate it if they broadcast the
replay of my worst moments over and over again. Analysts would find a lot to complain about, criticize, and
bemoan. It would be embarrassing and
heartbreaking to listen to.
The Apostle Paul encouraged early Christians to avoid
such commentary with other Christians.
He says, “Be kind and compassionate to one
another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” Paul encourages early Christians to use
the grace God extends to us in Jesus as an example of how to extend grace to
others. Because we have been
forgiven much, we forgive much.
As
you go through the coming week, look for simple ways to extend grace when
people make mistakes. If a waiter messes
up your order, be kind and tip anyway.
Tell them Jesus loves them.
If a co-worker is late filing an important report, point out an area of
their work that has benefited you in the past. Thank them for it.
In a world that loves to complain and criticize and bemoan mistakes,
forgive and move on. If you do,
you’ll look back at the replay and find that you made the right call.